Once,
there was this guy, who was in love with a gal. She wasn't the most beautiful
and gorgeous but for him, she was everything. He
used to dream about her, about spending the rest of life with her. His friends
told him, "why do you dream so much about her, when you don't even know if
she loves you or not First tell her
your feelings, and get to know if she likes you or not". He
felt that was the right way. The girl knew from the beginning, that this guy loves
her. One day when he proposed, she
rejected him.
His friends thought
he would be not able to take the rejection and would turn to alcohol; drugs etc.
and ruin his life. To their surprise,
he was normal and not depressed as they feared. When
they asked him how was it that he is not sad, he replied... "Why
should I feel bad, I lost one who never loved me & she lost the one who really
loved and cared for her." In
our life we should look for rejections and failures with the same perspective.
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